My preference is that we both ship at the same time.  I know that I'm no better or worse than any of the rest of you.

I also prefer that cards be in NM condition.  If, when I am packing cards, I find that a card is in a condition less than I had advertised, I will let you know PRIOR to sending out, and we can go from there.

I've been a reliable trader with multiple trades worth $1,000+ on both sides.  300+ sales on TCGPlayer (EightTrigram), some number of sales on eBay, Bunc of cards swapped on PucaTrade (aberosh1819) and a handful of higher end international trades on MOTL. Basically, I'm trying not to waste your time.